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在图书馆乱逛的时候偶然拾起一本三毛的《谈心》，翻了几页便喜欢上了，随即花了一上午一口气读完了那本书。 Luanguang in the library when the chance to pick up a San Mao "talk", then turned a few pages on the likes, then spent the morning in one breath to finish that book. 其实对于三毛的大名中学的时候我就听说过，不过当时以为她的作品是和琼瑶差不多的，所以很是不屑，今天才发现这是个误会，而且一误会就是十年，不过还好，总算没有继续误会下去。 In fact, the San Mao's name when I Jiuting School said, but at that time that her works are almost Chiung Yao and, therefore, is very much disdain, today found that this is a misunderstanding, but 10 years is a misunderstanding, but okay , At least not to misunderstand it. 三毛真是一个极可爱的人，极天真自然而又极有智慧，感情极为丰富而又极洒脱。 San Mao is really a very lovely person, very naive and very natural wisdom, very rich and very emotional洒脱. 很难想象一个走遍了50多个国家经历那么多人情冷暖的人并没有麻木会有那么丰富的情感，她是个真正的性情中人，看好文章或电影都会痛哭流涕，而且居然连小学生也很喜欢她，光是能和小孩子平等交流对话这一点，就让人极为欣赏。 It is difficult to imagine a more than 50 countries around the experience of so many human well-being of people and not be so insensitive rich emotion, she is a real Xingqingzhongren, good articles or films will weep, and even primary school students are actually like She alone can equal exchange and dialogue between children and this, we highly appreciate the people. 她的文章中没有大道理，读起来特别亲切自然，但是其中又饱含智慧，不需要看见她本人，从字里行间已经可以感受到她独特的人格魅力了，接下来的日子一定要多读一下她的作品。 She's no truth in the article, read special kind of natural, but which is full of wisdom, I do not see her, from between the lines can already feel her unique personal charm, and the next day to read more of her Works. 摘录一篇《少年愁》， Extract a "juvenile worry about,"

少年愁 Junior worry about

亲爱的朋友： Dear friends:

又是青年节的月份了。 Youth Day is a month. 对于这一个节日其实好似已经不再属于我，可是想到那么多封来信——青年朋友的，仍想写几句话。 In fact, for a festival like this is no longer belongs to me, but think of so many letters from the closure - the young friends, still want to write a few words.

最不喜欢一般社会上的中年人或老年人，讲起少年或青年人时，总常引用的两句诗——少年不识愁滋味，为赋新词强说愁……。 Most do not like the general community of middle-aged or elderly, juveniles or young people, Jiang Qi, the two often-quoted poem - Junior does not really understand the difficulties involved, to give new word-keung said worry about……. 好似只有经历过了大半人生的人才有资格自己尝过那愁的滋味。 Like only the most experienced people in life that are eligible to worry about their tasted the flavor. 然后在诗句后半段，说：嗳——看穿啦，秋天真凉爽。 Then in the second half of the poem, said: Ai - seen through啦, really cool autumn.

其实，少年有少年人的心事，青年有青年人的迷茫，在这种初初面对社会、生活、学业和前途的一个断层阶段，那种惧慌和压力，绝对是胜过中年的 。 In fact, young teenagers have in mind, young people, young people confused, in which Chu Chu face society, life, education and the future of a fault stage, it is afraid of coming and the pressure is definitely better than the middle-aged. 中年和老年，其实才叫安然，因为这条愁路大半已经走过来了，于是当然可以说风凉话了——对青年人。 Middle-aged and elderly, in fact,才叫Enron, because of this worry about Road to a half has passed, so of course can be said Feng Lianghua - to our young people.

收到许多封青年人的来信，好似总也不受了解，心里那份对生的挣扎，充满着刀割一般尖锐的痛和委屈，当然，也有很深的寂寞和悲哀。 Many young people received a letter from the closure, also seem not to understand the heart of the struggle for health That, full of Daoge general acute pain and grievances, of course, there are very lonely and sad. 而一般人，是看不见的。 And ordinary people, is invisible. 总以为青年人有本钱，一些生活小事上的不能快乐，叫做自寻烦恼而已。 Young people have always thought that capital, some living on the small matter can not be happy, it is called self-trouble.

我认为，青年人的确有本钱，那份所讲本钱，在于身体的健康以及来日方长的时间，这是一个角度。 I think that young people do have capital, capital That what is the physical health and the long period of time in Japan, this is a point of view. 青年人事实上又真苦，因为实在没有本钱。 In fact young people is really hard, because there is no capital. 就从最直接的来说，没有本钱就是口袋里根本没有钱。 From the most direct, no money is no money in your pocket. 除了青春之外，本身的能力、社会经验、人际关系，都欠缺太多；以上的欠缺，造成必须“自力更生”时种种十二分实际的苦痛，那有如一场战役。 In addition to their youth, their ability, social experience, and interpersonal relationships are not too many; over the lack of need "self-reliance," Shi Erfen various real pain, it is like a battle. 自力更生这四个字，表示再不能吃父母的饭了，也表示学校时代“子宫时期”的一种结束。 This self-reliance words that parents do not eat the rice, also said the school age "period of the uterus," a conclusion. 青年人乍一下突然面对社会，发觉孑然一身不算，还得养活自己，那份惊慌失措，比一个婴儿的初初面对生命，还要来得巨大。 At first the young people suddenly faced with the community and found that Jieranyishen not, have to feed themselves, That panic, than a baby's Chu Chu face life, even more enormous. 而青年人不可能饿了便哭，因为要找奶瓶活下去的就是自己，哪有时间去哭呢？ Young people can not be hungry to cry, because live is to find a bottle himself, how can there be time to cry? » 所以说，青年人又是没有太多本钱的，这又是一个角度了。 Therefore, young people are not too many of the capital, which is also a point of the.

在人的一生里，我认为青年时代最有可为，也是最艰难的。 In the person's life, I think young people have for the most times, but also the most difficult.

有一年，去年，偶尔听见曾经教过的一班学生，毕业了开始找事时的对话。 One year, last year, has taught occasionally heard of a group of students, graduates Zhao Shi at the beginning of the dialogue. 一个说：“喂！我发觉社会上将大学毕业文凭这回事，不当什么吔！”另一个说：“怎么会？我们是大学生吔！”听见这样可爱又纯洁的对话，几乎令我大笑起来。 One said: "Hey! I find that the community will be graduating from university diplomas this matter, what misconduct Ye!" Another said: "how will« we are college students Ye! "Heard this lovely and pure dialogue, almost made me laugh Up. 天之高，地之厚，这些孩子要拿文凭去抵，是不可能的，而他们并不知晓。 Days, and the thick, diploma to bring these children arrived, it is impossible, but they do not know. 这也是青年人的可悲之处。 This is the sad young people in it.

很多的人，分不清理想与梦想的不相同。 Many people dream of the ideal and the confusion is not the same. 理想，是一种可能实现也可能不实现的观念，这要天时，地利、加上人和三大条件才能略知成功与否的一二。 Ideal, is a possible or may not realize the idea, to this day, geography, coupled with the three conditions and can Luezhi success of the January 2. 而梦想，可以想得天花乱坠，随人怎么想，要实现起来，大半是不成的。 The dream can think of the hype, with how people think, to realize, is not the most. 青年人对于社会的要求也高，失望也快，却很少注意到，一个成功的中年人或老年人的背后，往往有着许多辛酸血泪的故事。 For young people of high social demands, disappointed faster, but rarely noted that a successful middle-aged or elderly behind, often have many sorrows of blood and tears of the story. 这尚不够，那份持续的认真与努力，也是一个成功者必然的付出。 This is still not enough, That's serious and sustained efforts, is also a success for granted pay. 这以上说得又不完全，智慧才是一个人成功最大的条件之一，缺了它，什么也不成。 This right is not completely over, wisdom, is one of the most successful one of the conditions, lack of it, nothing into.

而智慧，是可以培养的，它和“小聪明”这三个字，十分不同。 And wisdom, can be cultured, and "small smart" these three words, very different. 一个肯于虚心吸收观察一切，经常反省、审查自己缺点和优点的人，在求智慧上，就比那些不懂得自省加观察的人来得快速了。 One is willing to absorb in a humble observation of all, regular self-examination, examine their weaknesses and strengths of people, in seeking wisdom, than those who do not know how to self-examination and observation of the people more quickly. 不但如此，如果也能平心静气的去细看分析社会现象，体谅他人做事的苦心，就更圆满些了。 Not only that, if can calm to look at the analysis of social phenomenon, understand the painstaking work of others, some of the more successful.

许多的青年朋友，将理想与梦想混为一谈，等到必须自求生路时，迈出了步子，踏入社会，方知连要安然的吃一口好饭都不简单的时候，便将理想、梦想，一起立即推倒，从此消沉下去，甚而又问出“人生何来？”那样悲伤的句子来。 Many of the young friends, ideals and dreams will be confused, must wait until the survival Road, took a step into the community, known even to the Enron eat a good meal are not simple, put ideals, dreams, to immediately Overthrown, from depression continue, and even asked to "how life» "sad as to the sentence.

看见这一个又一个青年人，在人生的道路上走得颠三倒四，我的内心总生出许多感触和爱莫能助的无力之感。 To see one after another of young people in life Diansandaosi go on the road, I give birth in the hearts of many feeling powerless and helpless in a sense.

常常听见身边的青年朋友怨叹人生，说是怀才不遇，社会不公平等等。 Often heard around the young friends Yuantan life, that is Huaicaibuyu, social injustice, and so on. 而我总以为，一分才情，或三分才情都成不了大事，那七分认真和努力如果不肯持续的投进生活中去，便算不得大才。 I always thought that, one Cai Qing, Cai Qing, or one-third are not as important, seven serious and sustained efforts if not dropped into the lives of, it only Suanbu De large. 如果想快速的成功或干脆说白，叫它——有钱，岂是一朝一夕便能达到目的的？ If you want to quickly say that the success or simply white, called - the money, Qi is the overnight will be able to achieve its objective of the » 而真正有大智慧的人所追求的人生，又岂只在钱财之事上呢？ And the wisdom of the truly great people to pursue life, Qi only a matter of money on it » 当然，这么枝枝节节往外扯，就太远了。 Of course, such a spiralling out of扯Zhizhi, on the far.

觉得中国小部分青年人，在这一代的，刻苦忍耐的精神和观念都太不够。 China's small number of young people think, in this generation, the spirit of patience and hard concepts are too inadequate. 眼光浅，心气浮躁，批评起他人来头头是道，而很少苛责自己。 On vision, heart-impetuous, Toutoushidao to criticism from others, and few Keze own. 行为和思想上的不能配合，往往造成一生中大好时光的浪掷，是十分可惜的事。 Behaviour and ideology do not meet, often resulting in the life of the waves throwing good time, is most unfortunate thing.

又因为中国的学生教育——无论在家庭或学校中，和生活如此的脱节，使得我们的青年人在行为上有如少年，在思想上一片僵化，除了书和文凭之外，对于一切社会人情，比起一个自小做学徒长大的工匠来说，那差得远了。 Also because of China's education students - whether at home or school, and so detached from life, makes our young people in acts like a teenager, in a rigid ideology, in addition to books and diploma, for all human society, Compared to a child who grew up to apprentice craftsmen, then Not even close. 这是因为“万般皆下品，唯有读书高”的观念造成的不能平衡，也当然是教育的失败之一。 This is because "Wanban are Xiapin, only high school," the concept of the balance can not, of course, is one of the failure of education.

社会本来是一个竞争的地方，我叫它“斗兽场”。 Originally society is a competitive place, I call the "Colosseum." 弱肉强食是自然界的一种现象，所谓“人吃人”这句话，细想起来，实在有它某种程度的真理在。 The law of the jungle is a natural phenomenon, the so-called "eat" will, consider, it is indeed a certain degree of truth. 这不可悲，可悲的在于，那些自甘被吃的人，往往都只因为年轻，如果人人都做强者，那么谁也吃不了谁，大家都保全了性命，不是更好吗？ This is not tragic, sad is that those who were willing to eat, often only because the young, if everyone is so strong, so no one Chi Bule who, we all preservation of their lives, not better? »

也有人问：如何才能做个强者，不被吞灭？ It was also asked: How can I be a strong, not to be Tunmie » 问的来信不是上文这么直接，其实意思是一样的。 Asked a letter from the above is not so direct, in fact, mean the same.

看见年轻人初出社会，心里总是同情、了解又心疼的。 Young people to see the beginning of society, hearts are always sympathized with and understanding of the distressed. 觉得做年轻人真是苦，那个苦，不是过来人所说的一种轻愁或强愁，那种愁，是又真、又切、又实在而又一时突不破的。 Think young people really do suffer, that hardship is not over people have said a strong worry about or worry about light, the kind of worry about, is also true, cut, it is 1:00 and the process is not broken.

说到这里，觉得自己不能突破的事情尚有好几件，又如何能再说什么话呢。 Here, feel that they can not break through the things there are several pieces, how can say what it is. 可是话仍是要说的，明知不太可能管用，总比不说的好。 But it still is to say, knowingly unlikely to be effective, is better than not that good.

最不喜欢用克服困难、努力向上这种字眼。 Most do not like to use to overcome difficulties and progressive efforts to this wording. 人生没有那么简单；困难，有时也不是一个人的力量所能“克”“服”的。 Life not so simple; difficult, and sometimes is not a person the power to "g" and "clothing". 想说的是，无论哪一种个性的青年朋友，我们要培养本身，学习Ａ血型人的冷静，Ｂ血型人的有弹性和开朗，加上Ｏ型的择善固执和ＡＢ型的双重人格，将这些看上去矛盾的不可能，耐心的放在每日的行事为人上去做实验。 Would like to say is, no matter what kind of personality of young friends, we have to train themselves and learn the cool blood type A, B blood type of flexible and cheerful, with the Zeshan stubborn type O and AB-type double personality, These will not appear contradictory, and patient on a day of practice to do well on the test. 我们不克不服困难，可是心平气和的去学着化解自己。 We Buke against difficulties, but to learn to calm the resolve themselves. 这绝对和虚伪、狡猾又不同，做一个有弹性的人，是多么重要的功课。 This is absolutely and hypocrisy, the crafty and different, so a flexible, and how important it is the homework. 我们看，大自然里，刚硬的树枝必然脆弱，而它们的表相，往往粗大而引人注目。 We see that nature, rigid branches will inevitably fragile, and their Biaoxiang, often large and impressive. 细柔的藤条可能强韧，可是乍一看去，又那么不显眼而渺小。 The photogenic powder rattan may be tough, but at first glance to, so small and inconspicuous. 青年人急于成为大树，而内在本质的坚硬与否便来不及去顾及，一刀砍下去，便是断了。 Young people eager to become a tree, and the inherent nature of the hard or too late to be taken into account, a Daokan it is broken.

苦痛和挫败，在一般人眼里看去，都是坏字，可是我却认为，如果白白苦痛一场，的确是败兵败将的唯一收获。 Suffering and defeat, in the eyes of ordinary people around, the words are bad, but I do think that if a pain in vain, it is the only defeat Bingbai will harvest. 一个有智慧的人，一旦懂得“利用苦痛”和“分析挫败”使得自己因而更上层楼，这些看来不顺的事情，就被化解为另一种有用的工具，使我们在日后的路上，用来当拐扶，走起来愁不愁但看本身境界，可是再跌倒的可能性绝对会减少一些。 A wise person once know how to "use of pain" and "Analysis of defeat" which makes its own heights, these things seem going, it was resolved as a useful tool, so that we on the road in the future, When Shui to help, and take up but I worry about no worries about their own realm, but the possibility of further falls will definitely reduce the number. 年轻人心气高傲又自卑，这两种心事，进入社会之后，没有人管你太多死活，便要当心自我的调配，不要因而走上太决裂的路上去。 Young hearts and gas Gaoao inferiority complex, both mind and entered society, not too many of you life and death, they will have to beware of self-deployment, which will not take too much to break away from the road. 而看见许多好青年，只因在分寸之间没能掌握得准确，失之千里，又令人扼腕。 And see many good young people, because in between measured not in the master accurate, the loss of a thousand miles, is Ewan.

又有一种心态的大孩子，总将人世看得过分黑暗，却因此忘记了，黑暗是光明衬托之下，才产生的一种比较。 Have a mentality of the children, the world will see too much darkness, so forget it, the darkness is bright background, it generated a more. 过分天真，将一切人看成善类，的确危险。 Too naive, as all people of good will like, really dangerous. 但是，如果将一切的众生全看成是恶的、坏的，那么这双眼睛不如早早闭上，不看也罢。 However, if all of the people as a whole is evil, bad, it is not early pairs of eyes shut, do not look at all right. 眼睛的可贵，在于看山是山，看水是水，不要山水颠倒，或是将它们混成一团稀泥，那样上苍给我们眼睛的好意，就被辜负了。 The eyes of the value of the mountain to see the mountains, watching the water is water, not landscape upside down, or they will be mixed together Xini, as God give us the eyes of well-intentioned, it was a let down.

也有年轻孩子，说在进入社会之后处处仰人鼻息，内心痛苦不堪。 Have young children, said in Yangrenbixi into the community after all, the inner pain can not. 我想，这在于如何观察事情。 I think this is how to observe things. 忍耐，是很难很难的功课，不然这个“忍”字不会如此造法的。 Patience, it is difficult to homework, or the "tolerance" word of the law-making would not be the case. 基本上我反对“忍耐论调”，而事实上我个人每日也在忍耐又忍耐这场人生，这都是因为化解自己的功力不够，做人弹性不足，才有的结果。 Basically, I oppose the "patience argument", and in fact is my personal daily life of the patient and patient, because this is not enough to resolve their own ability, lack of flexibility in life, only results. 忍耐是伤害健康的，因为压力如山，担久了必会生病。 Patience is the harm health, because the pressure on the mountain, Tam will be sick for a long time. 更有青年朋友跟我说，诗人中最欣赏陶渊明，这个人，不为五斗米折腰，是个了不起的人—— 采菊东篱下而去，多么淡泊。 More young friends told me that the most appreciate the poet Tao Yuanming, this person, do not fight for five Zheyaoshan meters, is a great people - under the left-Ju Dongli, how indifferent. 陶渊明不为五斗米，因为他家里还有人替他种田，让他悠然望南山啊。 Tao Yuanming not fight for five meters because his home was also for his farm and let him relax Wang Zhong Nanshan ah. 这个“不折”，也是有条件的一种洒脱，并非全无条件的。 This "discount" is also a conditional洒脱, is not entirely unconditional. 青年孩子，我们没有田的人，这个腰可以不折，但肚子饿了你能有气力去采菊花吗？ Young children, we do not have fields, the waist can not discount, but you can stomach is hungry to-air chrysanthemum? »

青年人的真苦，就在于条件的不足，只有靠时间和持续的成长来开启哀乐中年之门，这岂是一时便熬得出来的？ The true plight of young people, lies in the inadequate conditions, only time and continued to rely on the growth of middle-aged to open the door to a dirge, this time it is How can boil up in the » 而大半孩子，急于找寻时光隧道，恨不能一点付出都不必，便来了天凉好个秋。 And most of the children, eager to find a time tunnel, Hen Buneng that do not have to pay it to the天凉好个秋. 这，哪有那么容易？ This, how can there be so easy »

说了很多，都是纸面上诚诚恳恳的一些感想，要是青年朋友不要性急，慢慢的去看，目前也许不会有任何答案，可是十年后，也许感受到的比这篇文章会更深更明白许多人生的必经之路。 Said a lot on paper are some of Ken-sincere feelings, if young people do not Xingji, and slowly the view, now may not have any answers, but after 10 years, and perhaps felt the article would be better than Many more understand the only way of life. 毕竟在这条路上，我个人走得也十分不安稳和艰辛，也是一个不算有智慧的人，只是一份真诚罢了。 After all, in this way, I personally do not go very stable and difficult, but also a person of wisdom is not only a good faith only. 题目叫它《少年愁》，也是因为那首说少年人无愁的诗句感怀而起。 Subject called "juvenile worry about," because it is said that young people not worry about the first poem Ganhuai the sky. 少年、青年是真愁的。 Youth, the youth is really worry about. 人生第一境：昨夜西风凋碧树，独上高楼，望断天涯路。 The first Habitat life: last night's Western Diao Bishu, alone on the tower, Wangduan Tianya Road. 这个情景刚刚才由心里生出，是非常迷惘又无助的。 This scenario just before the heart give birth, is very confused and helpless. 青年节，愿与朋友共勉，我们一步一步走下去，踏踏实实的去走，永不抗拒生命交给我们的重负，才是一个勇者。 Youth Day, is willing to share with your friends, we go step by step, the sense to go, never to resist the heavy burdens of life to us, is a brave. 到了蓦然回首的那一瞬间，生命必然给我们公平的答案和又一次乍喜的心情，那时的山和水，又回复了是山是水，而人生已然走过，是多么美好的一个秋天。 To suddenly look back on that moment, life will certainly give us a fair answer and another Pottinger-feelings, then the mountains and water, is also back to the mountains is water, and life is already through, how beautiful autumn .

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