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转载一篇网上看来的文章，对文中很多观点并不同意，但是觉得有些东西说得还是挺实际的。 It seems that an online reprint of the article, the text does not agree with many points, but feel that something is right or very realistic.

心理学课上，周正教授正在授课：“上次下课时，一个男孩子递了张纸条：我是个比较内向的人，又没什么特长，不会踢足球，不会打篮球……唯一的爱好是写作。进入大学后，看到周围的同学在交往、工作中左右逢源、如鱼得水、洒脱干练，很是羡慕。就要步入社会了，我该如何规划自己的前途呢？……周教授，我想我还是当一名作家比较好，一个人，也不错，您说呢？’这个问题要不要回答？”周教授扬了扬手中的纸条。 Psychology class, Professor Zhou Zheng is the medium of instruction: "Under the last hours, one of the boys delivery of the note: I is a relatively introverted person, no merit, will not play football, playing basketball…… not the only Hobby is writing. Enter the university, the students see around exchanges, Zuoyoufengyuan work, at home,洒脱able, I was envious. It is necessary to enter society, how can I be planning their own future?…… Professor Zhou, I I still want to be a better writer, a person is not bad, you say « 'Do not answer to this question», "Professor Zhou Yang Liaoyang the hands of the note.

“回——答——”同学们兴致大起，“作家梦”可是不少惮于竞争之人的救命稻草啊！ "Return - FOR -" the students have great interest, "writers dream" But a lot of competition in Dan's life-saving straw ah!

周教授放下手中的纸条：“好，今天我就当面回答这位同学——我的态度，很简单：凡是做作家梦’的人，都是逃避现实的、无能的人……” Professor Zhou put aside the hands of the note: "well, today I will answer the students face to face - my attitude is simple: to do all writers dream of 'the people are escapism, incompetent people……"

话音未落，下面已是一片嘘声。 Voice Weila, the following is a boos.

“我来问问你们，一支笔、一张纸的事，谁不会？当作家，就是这么简单，人人都会。我常说，一流人才在军界和商界，二流人才在政界，三流人才在学术界。对军人而言，你领十万人，我领十万人，没本事，死的十万就是你的。这里要的是综合素质，是挑战，所以军界的人是最强的。商界也是如此，投入两个亿，三个月后，可能家破人亡，你干不干？要的是同样的素质。政界就不同，他可以调整、迂回，政策不行可以再改，是有余地的，但要负责任。而学术界，一次不行两次，两次不行三次……永远不行都可以。军人和商人的成败一目了然，唯有作家可进可退，无所谓胜负成败……”有人若有所思地点头。 "I came to ask you, a pen, a piece of paper thing, who would not» When the writer, is that simple, everyone will be. I often say that the best talents in the military and the business community, second-rate talent in political circles, a third-rate Talents in the academic community. To the military, you receive hundreds of thousands of people, I receive hundreds of thousands of people, not skill, is the death of hundreds of thousands of you. Here is the overall quality, is a challenge, so the military is the strongest The. The business community, too, into two billion to three months, may be broken up, you Gan Bugan »to the same quality. On various political, he can adjust, circuitous, and policies can not change is There is room for, but to be responsible. And the academic community, once not twice, not three times twice…… can not forever. The success of the military and businessmen at a glance, the only way into the writer can Ketui, the success or failure does not matter the outcome…… "Some people Ruoyousuosi and nodded.

“某著名作家在一所大学做讲座的时候，有同学问他怎样才能当作家？他说：首先养活你的家，再说当作家！’”周教授认真地看着大家，眼神里自然地流露出一种深切的关爱，“《论语》中记载：有一次孔子来到卫国，见卫国人很多，就说庶矣哉’，意思是卫国人多啊’。旁边有人问既庶矣，又何加焉？’意思是人多，怎么办呢？’——问题来了，有人，人多了，怎么办？我们该做点什么呢？你们认为孔子会怎么说？” "A well-known writer in a university lecture when a classmate asked him how can we when the author» he said: First, support your family, say the authors! ' "Professor Zhou Renzhendekan everyone, in the eyes naturally show A kind of deep love, "" The Analects of Confucius "records: first came to the defense of Confucius, who see a lot of defense, said Shu just zai ', meaning that more people defending ah'. Beside someone asked both just Shu, How can increase Yan » 'means that many people, how do»' - to the problem, some people more, how do «we do something about it« will be how do you think Confucius said «"

“教之——”大家很自信，大教育家嘛。 "Education is -" Everyone is very confident, great educator them.

周教授微笑着摇摇头：“子曰：富之。’——孔子说：让他们富起来。’你们以为有了人就要教育，却不知道在教育之前，首先要让人富起来。旁人又问：既富矣，又何加焉？’——人们富足以后，又该如何？’” Professor Zhou smiled and shook his head: "Zaiyue: the rich. '- Confucius said: Let them get rich.' You think that people should have education, do not know in education before people get rich first. And others Q: not only just the rich, how can we increase Yan » '- after affluent people, then how»' "

“教之——”大家会心一笑。 "Education is -" you knowing smile.

“对，人富足了才有条件接受教育。吃不好穿不暖的时候，教育是句空话，况且对衣食无安的人大谈教育，这种行为本身就不厚道。孔子不愧是教育大家，他这不富不教’ 的意义很深远！按照心理学家马斯洛的需求层次理论，人只有满足了基本的生理需求以后，才会去考虑安全、爱与被爱的需要，才会有自我实现的需要。” "Yes, wealthy people have the conditions to receive education. Wear is not bad to eat the warm, education is the sentence of empty words, with the addition of food and clothing to the NPC Education, the act itself is not Houdao. Confucius is indeed all education, he This is not the rich do not 'very far-reaching significance! Psychologist Maslow in accordance with the level of demand, only to meet the basic physiological needs of the future will be to consider safety, love and the need to be loved, can the self-realization Needs. "

“举例而言：勒紧腰带过日子的小两口，到了情人节，丈夫一咬牙，送爱妻一大束玫瑰，这时候妻子是什么感觉？” "For example: tighten their belts life of Xiaoliang Kou, to the Valentine's Day, a Yaoya husband, wife sent a bundle of roses, this time his wife is feeling» "

“浪漫吧？” "Romantic Bar» "

“是浪费！”同学们争起来。 "A waste!" The students have to struggle.

“还不如送我一双毛皮手套呢！你看看，这个冬天我的手又冻了，净花冤枉钱……”周教授开玩笑似的嗔怪道，大家在嬉笑中亦有所感悟。 "I do not like sending a pair of fur gloves! You look at my hand this winter and freeze, the net money spent wrongly accused……" Professor Zhou jokes like Chenguai Road, we are giggling in the sentiment.

“当人过日子都紧张的时候，是不会想着浪漫的，那是有钱人的享受。问你们一个常识：知道雄鸟追求雌鸟的时候，送给雌鸟的是什么？” "When people are nervous when life is not going to think about the romantic, it is the enjoyment of the rich. Ask you a common sense: that the pursuit of Ciniao Xiongniao the time, given what is the Ciniao» "

“虫子。” "Insect."

“对啊，一送虫子，雌鸟就会意了：这家伙生存能力强，跟着它，今后我们的孩子不会挨饿。这是一个连鸟都明白的道理。” "Right ah, a delivery insect, Ciniao Italy will be: this guy highly survivable, with its future, our children will not go hungry. This is an even birds are aware of the truth."

下面安静极了，生怕漏掉周教授的任何一句话。 Below is a quiet, for fear of missing Professor Zhou any sentence.

“仓廪实而知礼节，衣食足而知荣辱。’自古以来，人们便说饥寒起盗心’。能吃得好、穿得好，生活安定之后才能让晚辈过正常的生活。如果没有东西吃，连父母的东西也会抢过来吃，兄弟的就更不用提了。在人们陷入最差的生活状态时，就顾不得什么道义。这就是人类真正的本性。中国的先哲早在几千年以前，就已指出了人类的真实形貌。” "Canglin is Erzhi courtesy, adequate food and clothing Erzhi honour. 'Since ancient times, people will say that Jihan stolen from the Heart'. Eat well, Chuande good, stable life after so younger people can lead a normal life. If there are no things to eat, even The things their parents would eat Qiangguo, the brothers not to mention the even more. People caught in the worst living conditions, on what moral Gu Bude. This is true of human nature. Sages of China as early as several thousand years ago, has been That the true shape of the mankind. "

“在衣食无法获得满足时，依然能保持礼节，这是凡人做不到的事情。” "In the food and clothing can not be met, can still maintain a courtesy, it is ordinary people can do things."

“如果希望这种兽性不要出现，期待我们最理想的人性流露，也为了维持社会秩序，提高道义，彼此能懂得礼貌，并以此幸福生活，就必须确保每个人都能有自己的收入。换句话说，要让大家能赚到钱。基于义务，我们必须要赚钱才行。” "If you want this animal should not appear, we look forward to the best of human nature revealed, in order to maintain social order, improve the moral, to know each other politely and as a happy life, we must ensure that everyone can have their own income. Sentence for Saying that we want to Nengzhuan money. Based on the obligations, we must make money才行. "

必须赚钱！ Must make money! ——看来，所谓“以人为本”，我们并不比古人懂得多。 -- It seems that the so-called "people-oriented", we do not know more than the ancients.

“雄性丧失了生存能力就丧失了天赋雄性之本性。历史表明，男人的不幸、民族的不幸源于贫穷。所谓贫病交加’、穷凶极恶’……因此，你们必须认识到：挣钱是公德，要重视金钱。我这样告诉你们：男孩子，你可以不会踢足球，不会打篮球，可以不会作诗，不会弹钢琴，不会做饭。可以什么都不会，但是必须会挣钱。” "Male lost on the viability of the natural loss of the male character. History has shown that men's unfortunate that the unfortunate people from poverty. The so-called sick Cross' heinous'…… Therefore, you must understand that: money is ethics, To attach importance to money. I tell you this: boys, you can not play football, not play basketball, Zuoshi can not and will not play the piano, not cooking. What can not, but must be earned Money. "

周教授的话字字珠玑、鞭辟入里。 Professor Zhou, then every word Abas, Bianpiruli. 我感觉很多男孩子的眼睛在放光，不知他们看到的是压力还是希望？ I feel a lot of boys in the eyes shine, I wonder if they see the pressure is still hope »

“最后，再给你们一个例子，你们用心思考。比如说，快到春节了，太太说：该过春节了，咱爸咱妈想来深圳这边，看看咱们和小外孙。’她先生立刻就说：来啥来？根本不用来！咱已经忙得够呛了，再让他们过来，净添乱！再说，这路上，老年人多不方便！’这个男人现在是什么状态？” "Finally, to give you an example, you have intentions of thinking. For example, the Spring Festival approaching, his wife said: the the Spring Festival, Shenzhen Zanbazanma wanted to come here and see Let's grandson and small. 'She immediately, Said: to span to «is not used to! Our De Gouqiang has been busy, let them up, the net Tianluan! Besides, this way, the elderly and more inconvenient!, 'What is the status of men now» "

“气急败坏！”有人笑着回答。 "Angrily," someone replied with a smile.

“记住，凡是气急败坏的男人都是穷男人。但是另外一家，太太说：老公啊，快过春节了，老人们都想过来看看咱们，一年没见面了！’先生说：哦，好啊好啊，应该让他们过来。这样，你让他们坐飞机过来。’这个男人就不气急败坏，他很平静。还有，你看，咱家的房子，这三层七八间，冷冷清清的，孩子也没有人陪着玩。爷爷奶奶来了，或者姥姥姥爷来了，家里有生气，过年过节的有生气多好！’他为什么这样说？因为这个男人有钱，他不怕，他有地方住，有钱让父母过来。他有办法显示他的孝心，而且这种男人往往不会发脾气。因为他有很大的控制权，有很好的基础，任何事情到他这里都可以化解，可以平静对待。然后，一家人高高兴兴地过了春节。老人走的时候，先生问太太：爸妈他们有什么要求没有？’没有没有，他们都很高兴，一点要求都没有。’先生说：我听见了，他们说老三要结婚，没房子住，他们想空出房子去住老房。这怎么可以呢？这样，在老家花6万块钱，我们出3万，三弟拿3万，盖一栋两层小楼让他们住，爸妈就不用动了。’听了这话，太太抱着丈夫说不出话来，这样的老公哪个太太不爱不感激呢？好，房子盖成了，弟弟说姐夫是好人，全村羡慕，父母开心，一家生活幸福。3万块钱，只是他一个月的工资，他愿意拿出这3万块钱。” "Remember, all angrily men are poor men. But another, his wife said: husband, ah, faster than the Spring Festival, the old people want to stop by to see Let's, 2001 did not meet! ', Said: Oh, good Ah good, we should let them up so that you let them fly over. 'This man is not angrily, he was very calm. Also, you can see, Zanjia the house, this three-tier 78, the empty, No one accompanied the children to play. Grandparents come, or grandmother Laoye to the family dynamic, vibrant Chinese New Year holidays are good! 'Why did he say that «money because of this man, he is not afraid, he has a place to live , The money from parents. He has to show that he's Filial Piety, and that men often do not Fapi Qi. Because he has great control, a very good foundation for anything that he can be resolved here, you can calm treatment. Then, a person to have a happy Spring Festival. Elderly people taking the time, his wife asked: What are the requirements of their parents did not « 'No No, they are very happy, that request did not.', Said: I heard They said the third son to get married, no house to live, they want to air out the house to live Laofang. How can this be «In this way, in my hometown of money spent 60,000, to 30,000, with 30,000 Sandi, a covered Building two small building to enable them to live, the parents do not have to move. 'After listening to this, his wife take her husband can not say a word, which the wife does not love her husband did not appreciate it », and build a house, the younger brother Said brother-in-law is good, the envy of the village, their parents happy, a happy life. 30,000 money, he is only one month's wages, he was willing to take this 30,000 money. "

周教授最后说：“愿意做哪一个，你们自己选择。但是，要记住：知识不一定会带来金钱，挣钱靠的是能力。” Professor Zhou said in conclusion: "willing to do what one of your own choice, but to remember: knowledge will not necessarily bring money, is the ability to make money on."

原文地址： http://www.holyme.com/blog/article.asp?id=261 Original Address: http://www.holyme.com/blog/article.asp?id=261

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下面是我个人的观点： Below is my personal point of view:

首先，我是极讨厌诸如“做个真正的男人”、“男人要做的XX件事”、“男人必看”……之类的文章的，初看这篇文章的时候也不是这个题目。 First of all, I was very disgusted with such as "Be a real man", "Men do things XX", "Men Must See"…… like the article, see the beginning of this article is not the time to the topic. 我觉得这种东西是很可笑的，某些人自己总结出一些个人观点 ，然后意淫大家说：是男人就应该怎样怎样，只有一些没大脑的人才会被鼓舞得热血沸腾。 I think this kind of thing is very ridiculous, some people sum up some of their own personal point of view, and then we Yi Yin said: how men should be, the brain not only some people will be encouraged in the blood boiling. 我们所说的“真正的男人”不过是具有了大家所认同的品质的男人，比如责任心、果敢和爱心，这些品质是需要磨练出来的，怎么可能通过看几篇文章看几部电影就获得？ What we are talking about the "real man" is recognized by everyone with the quality of the men, such as the sense of responsibility, courage and love, these qualities is the need to temper out, how might see few articles to see several films on Access » ！ ! 扪心自问，现在的我还不能算是一个“男人”，只能算是个“男孩”而已，我还没有足够地成长起来。 Ask ourselves, now I also can not be regarded as a "man", can only be regarded as a "boy" just, I do not have enough to grow up.

接下来说说金钱问题，虽然我比较理想主义，但还是很承认金钱的作用的。 Next to talk about money, although I am more idealistic, but still very recognition of the role of money. 大部分人都不是那种高士雅士，不太可能像庄子那样就算穷困潦倒依然觉得逍遥自在，我们只有在不用为生活发愁的时候才能体会到逍遥，所以可以这么说：有了物质基础才能获得自由，才能逍遥自在。 Most people are not that high Shiya Shi, was not likely that even if the destitute Zhuangzi still feel comfortable Happy, we need not only for the time to worry about life experience to Happy, so to speak: a material basis in order to be free , To Happy freely. 有一句话说得好：“一只空袋子很难站得笔直”，穷困潦倒的人往往也不会被人尊重，而且也往往鼠目寸光，整日在鸡毛蒜皮的一些事情上斤斤计较，心胸也很难开阔。 There is a saying was right when he said: "an empty bag to stand in the straight," destitute people will not always be respected, but also often Shumucunguang, some of the day in trivial matters Jinjinjijiao, can hardly open-minded. 尽管我们从小接受的教育看到的励志小故事都告诉我们要“人穷志不穷”，然而，人穷志不穷的人实在是太少太少，大部分的人都验证了那一句话：人穷志短。 Although we see from the education of the inspirational stories told us to "non-poor people poorer," however, were not poor-poor people is too little too little, most people have verified that a word : Short-poor people. 我们经常听到某些对富人的评论“穷得只剩下钱了”、“守财奴”，但是我发现穷人往往比富人更多地为金钱所累，举个例子，富人去旅游的时候会旅游得很畅快，把心思全部用在欣赏景色上，因为他根本不用担心钱的问题；而穷人去旅游的时候可能就没那么潇洒，可能边玩还要边算剩下的钱，这两个人谁更像是金钱的奴隶呢？ We often hear the comments of some of the rich "poor in the only money" and "miser", but I found that the poor often than the rich more money for the tired, for example, when the rich travel Tourism will be very cool to efforts by all appreciate the scenery in, because he never have to worry about money problems, while the poor may be the time to travel is less潇洒, may edge to edge on the remaining balance of the money, these two individuals Who is more like a slave? Money » 当然，或许我们这里所说的只是人的心境，和个人的修养关系更大，不过我们不得不承认，有经济基础不用为温饱担心的人心胸更容易开阔。 Of course, perhaps we talking about here is people's feelings, and the cultivation of personal relationships more, but we have to admit, have an economic basis for food and clothing do not have to worry about the people more easily open-minded.

虽然说金钱是如此重要，但是我很反对为了挣钱而挣钱，那样就是金钱的奴隶了，而且有时候你越是天天想着挣钱，反而越是挣不到什么。 Although the money is so important, but I am against it for the money and make money, as money is a slave, and sometimes the more you think about every day to earn money, but earn less than what the more. 现在我坚定不移地相信： 只要你足够优秀，财富是挡也挡不住的。 I now firmly believe: If you enough outstanding, wealth is also blocked the unstoppable. 关键在于：你是不是足够优秀？ The key is: you are not good enough » 同声传译薪水很高，华尔街的分析师也很能挣钱，很多紧缺的高端人才待遇也让人流口水，只要你有那个能力，OK，那些年薪就是你的。 Simultaneous interpretation high salaries, Wall Street analysts are able to earn money, many high-end talent shortage of treatment also makes people drooling, as long as you have that ability, OK, who is your annual salary. 另外，大部分能挣钱的男人是不太可能只会挣钱的，优秀的人往往在几个方面都优秀，挣钱只是他的能力之一。 In addition, most of the men can make money is not likely to only make money, and outstanding people in several areas are often excellent, his ability to earn money only one.

现在我很渴望金钱，我需要一定的物质基础来满足我杂乱繁多五花八门的兴趣爱好，不过在那之前，我要好好想想怎么把自己从一粒沙子变成一颗珍珠才行。 Now I am eager to money, I need some material basis to meet the multifarious I mess many hobbies, but until then, I have to think about how to make itself from a sand into a pearl才行.

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